I mean your OOC descriptions of her vs. how she comes off in play. Looking at her journal, I get the impression that you see her as someone who is expected to be tediously domestic, but who really has a kind of fighter's spirit and a lot of spunk, but I don't see the spunk when you play her. I may be misjudging how you see her, so feel free to correct me if I'm wrong.

I don't have any links handy at the moment, but I'll dig around when I get home and see what I can find.