ariel_ooc | HMD meme

HMD

It's that time finally! Here's our How's My Driving? post. This sitewide meme will go up on the 20th of every month and it's encouraged that everyone post! Please post a list of your current in-game characters as a reference for other members to use for comments or critique.

Remember to keep it civil. Outright flaming will not be tolerated and we will deal with any hostile comments as soon as possible. Critique should be constructive. Offer ways a player can improve their characters, solve any problems you might have, etc. rather than just telling them they're horrible with no examples or pointers.

Likewise, this isn't a love meme. It's great to tell someone you think they're doing a good job or you love playing with them! Just give reasons for why you think they're awesome or what they're doing well. We're not discouraging positive comments. Love is great, but so is hearing why you are so you know what to keep doing.

Anon comments are enabled and IP logging is off for those who'd prefer a little anonymity, but please don't abuse this feature to be rude to other players.

If anything comes up, please visit the concerns page to let us know or contact us through any of the other various ways listed.

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The HMD is something I loathe seeing each month because it is anon. If someone wishes to give another concrit then isn't that why we have HMDs in our journals to begin with? That is far more reasonable than posting something akin to this anon enabled meme. The major problem with the anon enabled meme is the following:

1) It's making your players here at Ariel targets for hatred.

2)It doesn't matter how good you control the screening of comments or how on top of it you are in regards to detouring any hatred being thrown at your players by anons. By allowing something open, there will be hate and people's feelings will get hurt. That person tagging in will still feel the backlash and steam coming from those flames.

If everyone wants to concrit, perhaps they could do it through journals? Not this. And if they have problems with a certain player, well that's what you mods are for, isn't it?

I can't help but feel like you guys are painting big bright red targets on us. I know you don't mean to and this is supposed to be a tool used for constructive crit, but I for one am not in agreement with a post that can be used for hatred so easily.

I've already seen a bunch of morons on here.

Why are we saying we shouldn't take outside anon crit and allowing the outside in?

Learn to read. When they first put a stance on anon crit it was from fucking communities, not singular anons bringing it to the mods or players. jfc, if you're going to complain then get your facts straight.

the problem with making the hmd anon enabled is that it makes it open to people not in the game. you can't anon a locked community post. i think maybe ayrt was saying that making the game hmd anon enabled just leaves an otherwise locked post open to the anon shit stirring that has been going on in the anon comms since before the game even opened.

Sorry anon, but if you don't like the risk of potentially anon crit, just don't post here. From what I've seen, most of the crit handed out has been both constructive, and from people who are fairly obviously in the game. Most people aren't so easily wounded to need to be cushioned from the entire rp community, even when playing in a game like this, and if you need to avoid it, then just keep away from here. Simple.

I like the HMD because, despite the risks, it gives people a regular chance to air any problems and is more likely to provoke discussion than posting on a private HMD, where people can just screen the comment and ignore it forever. Besides, I haven't seen any hoards of hateful anons streaming in here to cause wank. I think you're over-estimating how invested people who aren't actually in the game are in us.

Couldn't have said it better myself.

The irony here is that you're showing us why anon crit is good. Posting under anon helps some of us feel more comfortable with giving crit, just like you're obviously more comfortable under anon since you didn't leave this comment logged in. You're a basic example of why we should leave anon on.

Have you looked at the anon comments on this post? All with the exception of one comment have been very well thought out and, above all else, polite. It's very clear that all of the anon comments are from current players. Your second comment says "anons" like they're vandals. They're not. They're the very people you're playing with that are bringing up concerns they have and, also, quite a few of the anon comments are positive.

I think game's HMD is particularly effective because it allows anon commenting. It's been shown time and time again that people aren't comfortable saying constructive criticism logged in, because some players may react badly towards the person trying to help. Aren't a very example of this yourself? You don't feel comfortable saying this logged in. I've seen players hate, verbally attack, and completely slander someone for offering gentle, well thought out concrit. Anyone that's been in this hobby for any decent length of time has seen at least one massive explosion because a player couldn't handle concrit. Allowing anon commenting provides protection to well-meaning players.

On the other hand, it also provides encouragement to players. It can be especially hard to give concrit to castmates and friends, because you don't want their attitude to change towards you and you don't want them to stop tagging you. (And no matter what you say, even the people that handle crit well might be hesitate to tag the one that gave them concrit or worse, might hold it against them.) I've seen characters being played terribly go on and on without someone providing concrit simply because the players didn't a venue they felt safe on. If you know someone's going to react badly, how comfortable would you be? I find concrit to be infinitely more honest and helpful from anons, because they aren't constantly sugar-coating it to protect their name. They're telling you what problems they found, you're free to agree or disagree, but this is what they think. But I also recognize these anons as the same people I'm playing against. I have faith in the mods rooting out any comments that aren't helpful.

Lastly, the mods are here to handle any inappropriate comments that spring up. I advise you to look at the anon comments on this post. No one is becoming a target for hatred. The only thing happening is constructive criticism. Anything that isn't constructive criticism isn't allowed, plain and simple. The mods have already proven they will delete any comments that aren't polite and constructive. You have absolutely nothing to fear here unless you're afraid of honest concrit. In which case, you're only hurting yourself.

We appreciate your concerns, anon, and we're certainly keeping an eye on them. The last thing we want is for our players to become targets of anon attacks.

However, we have not seen any examples of hatred from outside the game, nor have we seen a mob of inappropriately virulent anon comments. In fact, most of the anon criticism we see on this HMD is polite, considerate and thoughtful; additionally, this HMD is not mandatory and any who feel uncomfortable with it may skip the meme entirely.

To be clear: we do not allow bullying, and if there are any threads you feel cross the line, please report them to our mod concerns post.

The conclusion we draw from the above is that the benefits of anon (allowing our players to be more comfortable approaching one another) outweigh the drawbacks of having the post unlocked.

The HMD will stay as is unless and until those circumstances change.

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